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Eid Weekend Ideas

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Heritage Open Days (see below)

Eid greetings from all at emel HQ!

For many people around the world, Eid will be falling on the Friday. Why not spend some quality time this weekend with your friends and family at some of our handpicked ideas?

We found them interesting, hope you will too :)

1st September

Enchanted Palace

Exhibition

Kensington Palace transforms into a magical multisensory exhibition that combines fantasy, fashion and spectacle in a dazzling show. Each of the State Apartment rooms is filled by a renowned designer or illustrator, who have each created a fantastical display inspired by the royals who once occupied them. Taking inspiration from fairytales and real life stories of royal women, the exhibition invites you in to hear their tales. Using film projections, soundscapes, storytelling and interactive theatre, visitors to Kensington Palace will be whisked off to a fairytale world.
Venue: Kensington Palace, Kensington Gardens, London, W8 4PX

hrp.org.uk

11th September

Epic of the Persian Kings: The Art of Ferdowsi’s Shahnameh

The Fitzwilliam Museum opens its doors to a landmark exhibition exploring the monumental artistic legacy of the Persian Shahnameh. The exhibition sees a collection of nearly one hundred lavish manuscript paintings spanning over 800 years.
Venue: The Fitzwilliam Museum, Trumpington St, Cambridge, UK CB2 1RB
fitzmuseum.cam.ac.uk

9th – 12th September

Heritage Open Days

This four day event celebrates some of the best architecture and culture England has to offer through a series of open-house locations from buildings of every age, style and function. From castles to factories, town halls to tithe barns, parish churches to Buddhist temples, the Heritage Open Days offers free access to hidden architectural treasures that are often closed to the public.
Venue: locations throughout England
heritageopendays.org.uk

11th – 12th September

The Mayor’s Thames Festival

This annual festival takes place on the banks of the River Thames with a free celebration surrounding everything related to London and the Thames. The weekend’s activities aim to inspire and excite with a combination of extensive educational programmes as well as water-focused activities, performances, street-art and exhibitions. The finale is a magical illuminated night procession that winds along the north and south banks
of the Thames, followed by a fireworks display fired from the centre of the river itself.
Venue: between Westminster Bridge to Tower Bridge, London
thamesfestival.org

Peace out

Fatema and Robi

emel launches its first Cafepress store!

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Salams and Greetings all,

After many weeks of planning, discussing and scribbling, we are happy to announce that we have finally launched our first store on Cafepress. We’ve decided to start small as we experiment with ideas and concepts and hope with your input, we can come out with some very cool products.

We would really appreciate your feedback and welcome all suggestions! Let us know what you want to see in there. You can find it at www.cafepress.com/muslimlifestyle

Robi

Web Editor

emel’s Top 5 Eid Gifts for Children

With less than a week to go, here at the emel office we figured we can’t leave the kids out!  Here’s our pick of great gift ideas for the children:
Arabian Sinbad
This is a brilliant learning tool, as well as hours of fun! Great for adults and children alike, this language learning kit comes complete with stickers and flashcards, as well as cd’s and animation.
www.arabiansinbad.com
emel’s baby grows
Guess what? emel has a brand new cafepress store! We are continuously updating the store with unique and cool items. At the moment, for young kids we have a selection of baby grows. Watch this space for more emel-unique items coming soon.
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Arabic Whale
This product makes a great gift for children. The puzzle comes in various other shapes from crocodiles to dinosaurs – an ideal way to make learning fun.
www.iplayandlearn.com
Solar Powered Helicopter Kit
A very cool product, indeed! This solar powered helicopter kit looks set to be hours of fun. Perfect for slightly older kids, the helicopter kit is ideal for quality time building a great toy.
www.biomelifestyle.com
Noah’s Ark
This is definitely a treat. The Noah’s Ark set is a 28pc large hand-crafted gift. Each piece is hand crafted and hand painted, with intricate attention paid to detail and made on rubberwood – an earth friendly hardwood.
www.bynature.co.uk

With less than a week to go, here at the emel office we figured we can’t leave the kids out!  Here’s our pick of great gift ideas for the children:

Arabian Sinbad

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This is a brilliant learning tool, as well as hours of fun! Great for adults and children alike, this language learning kit comes complete with stickers and flashcards, as well as cd’s and animation.

www.arabiansinbad.com

emel baby grow

emel’s little outfits

emel baby grow

Guess what? emel has opened up its own store on Cafepress where you can buy some very cool stuff. We will be continuously updating the store with new designs and products. At the moment, for young kids we have a small selection of baby grows and t-shirts. We also have a lot of things for adults too. Watch this space for more emel-unique items coming soon.

The emel Cafepress Muslim Lifestyle Store

Arabic Whale

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This product makes a great gift for children. The puzzle comes in various other shapes from crocodiles to dinosaurs – an ideal way to make learning fun.

www.iplayandlearn.com

Solar Powered Helicopter Kit

Solar Helicopter

A very cool product, indeed! This solar powered helicopter kit looks set to be hours of fun. Perfect for slightly older kids, the helicopter kit is ideal for quality time building a great toy.

www.biomelifestyle.com

Noah’s Ark

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This is definitely a treat. The Noah’s Ark set is a 28pc large hand-crafted gift. Each piece is hand crafted and hand painted, with intricate attention paid to detail and made on rubberwood – an earth friendly hardwood.

www.bynature.co.uk

If you have any suggestions to add to the list, please leave a comment below! And pray for us in these last days of Ramadan.

Fatema

Lifestyle Editor

Do you know some amazing people?

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Do you know of any individuals or organisations that are inspiring others and doing amazing things that are having a real impact on our lives? If you do, you should take this opportunity to get them recognised at Mosaic’s Talent Awards. In line with their commitment to recognise the amazing talent of young British Muslims, the people short listed for the awards will be enlisted onto the Mosaic Talent Programme. The programme includes mentoring from their most inspiring supporters, internship oppurtunities, and participation in Mosaic’s International Summit.

Here are the categories that are being short listed -

Science and Technology / Excellence in Education / Arts and Culture / Mosaic Mentor of the Year / Inspirational Leader of the Year / Young Entrepeneur / Young Volunteer / Community Leadership International / Sports / Interfaith / Media

To apply, fill out a nomination form by visiting www.mosaicnetwork.co.uk/awards

Applications will be open until Friday 10th September (not long to go!)

Winners will be announced at the Mosaic Talent Awards in November 2010

Israeli Jewish millionaire helps refurbish mosque in France

We recently blogged about Christians in Bethlehem joining Muslims in fasting during the month of Ramadan. Here’s another beautiful story of inter-faith co-existence.

Robert Harush, a 58 year old Father of four, is a Jewish businessman who had made a fortune in European real estate. He grew up in the Southern city of Ashkelon, but has been residing in France with his family for the past 10 years. Despite leaving his hometown, he divdes his time between both countries and has embarked on various business ventures there.

The mayor of Montereau, a city near Paris, recently approached Robert, who informed him of his difficulties in financing the renovation of a large mosque in the city.

“I told myself ‘here is an opportunity to bring the people together’ and decided to donate the money,” Harush said. “People were dumbfounded. What does a Jewish-Israeli man have do to with refurbishing a mosque? The answer is simple: I’m sick and tired of the hatred. A sane voice must emerge.”

Harush explained that he built the mosque in order to promote co-existence. “It wasn’t a cheap venture but I did with all my heart.”


Source –
http://www.ynetnews.com/articles/0,7340,L-3907600,00.html

We’re looking for your stories

Salaams and greetings all, hope you’re all having a fabulous Tuesday after that amazing bank holiday weekend :)

Have you ever thought about writing for emel? Well, here’s your chance! As one of the most popular sections of emel, our real lives section is a great way for people to share their life experiences, whether they’re about marriage, friendship or times of hardship and ease.

We’re currently looking for people to send us in their stories for the Marriage and After Hardship Comes Ease pieces. The couples featured in emel previously have shared their personal stories of companionship, the journey they’ve embarked on with their partners as well as the life lessons they’ve learnt from the experience of marriage. The After Hardship Comes Ease article is a chance for people to talk about a particular difficulty they’ve encountered and how their faith in God motivated them to have the courage to overcome.

If you’d be interested in sharing your story, please drop us an email at info@emel.com (FAO Esham)

Peace out :)

Esham

Editorial Assistant

emel’s Top Eid Gifts

We’re half way through Ramadan and it’s been a beautiful month so far, filled with loved ones and spirituality. As the blessed month slowly comes to an end, many of us will begin to experience that sinking feeling in our stomach – we’ll miss everything that Ramadan brings and hope that we can continue it throughout the year.

Eid is the perfect time to show how grateful you are for those you love and cherish. I asked around the office for everyone’s Eid gift ideas and here are our top ten:

Hiba Hampers

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www.hibahampers.co.uk

Hiba Hampers are great for any occasion. Having received one a few months back, I was surprised at the thoughtful, handmade touch that comes with these baskets. Each hamper can be personally chosen to include specific items that will appeal to the recipient. You can choose from an extensive range of gift products from around the world, each packaged to perfection in these luxury hampers.

MADE

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www.made.uk.com

made accessories are unique and ideal gifts that are not only beautiful pieces but also a step to empowering developing countries. All made products are designed by influential designers, then sourced and created within disadvantaged communities across East Africa.

Red Letter Days

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www.redletterdays.co.uk

From cool and adventurous, to serene or educational, Red Letters Days provides options for the most eclectic of tastes. Great for finding a unique and personalised gift, the website offers cookery courses, flying lessons and for a more laid back choice – a trip on the orient express!

Oxfam unwrapped

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www.oxfam.org.uk

Give a gift with a lasting effect, Oxfam unwrapped provides big impact gifts such as the gift of education or clean water to people less fortunate.

Profound Aesthetic

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www.profoundaesthetic.com

A unique t-shirt with an inspired message is a great gift. Profound Aesthetic is a rare brand unlike many. The conceptual designs hold powerful messages filled with positive energy. The combination of creative ideas mixed with visually appealing designs makes these t-shirts a brilliant gift choice.
(Look out for our own range of unique and inspired t-shirts at the emel shop – coming very soon!)

Adopt an Animal

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www.zsl.org/zsl-london-zoo

Now this is a brilliant gift – adopt an animal at the London Zoo. This is an ideal gift for any animal lover, whilst helping the conservation work for endangered species.

Merlin Annual Pass

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www.merlinannualpass.co.uk

No need to limit visits to your favourite attractions, this annual pass makes a great gift, allowing you to visit popular attractions multiple times, including Thorpe Park, Legoland and Madame Tussauds.

Zaytoun

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www.zaytoun.org

Zaytoun is a community interest company, created to develop a UK base for fairly traded Palestinian produce. These products provide the authentic touch, as well as empowering people to feel they are actively engaging towards a solution for their own benefit.

Etsy

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www.etsy.com

A great place to buy handmade and vintage products, from woodwork and ceramics, to furniture and house-ware. Etsy often sells one-off unique finds as well as items you’d perhaps never think of.

Gift of Time

You don’t need to spend money to give a great gift – share your time with a loved one with a ‘time coupon’. Here’s one we’ve made for you, all you have to do is decide how you’re going to spend your time with the person you’re giving the gift to, for example ‘spend the day gardening’ or ‘spend the day exploring a city’.

For more Eid inspiration, look out for our Eid photo essay; showcasing a selection of snapshots, capturing the spirit of Eid from across the globe or enjoy our little morsels of sweetness with ‘Eid Bites’. This month, I also got to speak to some of our favourite Hijabi Bloggers; Mariam and Jana, getting a glimpse into their childhood experiences of Eid.For the added spiritual touch, our special feature on ’40 Ways to Make the Spirit of Ramadan Last the Whole Year’ is a must read, with great pointers on remaining spiritually connected. (Available in the Eid special, Issue 72 – out now).

Last of all – a personal highlight of mine was the story on Christians in Bethlehem joining Muslims in the act of fasting. How’s that for one love and a great way to sign off…

One Love and Peace.

Fatema

What are your favourite halal restaurants?

what could we be up to? :)

what could we be up to? :)

Good evening all! It’s been a hectic start to the week here at emel; we’ve been working on putting the final touches to our new TV advert (watch out for it. We’ll let you know when it goes live) and sourcing ingredients for the next food shoot. Speaking of food, what are your favourite halal restaurants?

100 Days of Coalition

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Written by Saqeb Mueen

With the Con-Lib Coalition Government reaching the 100 day milestone, Saqeb Mueen explores some of the issues of particular relevance to Britain’s Muslim communities.

Since the 1930s, it has become customary for modern governments to be judged through its performance in the first 100 days. But in Britain today, the assessment of the Con-Lib Coalition Government is tricky given the novel make-up: where ministers are still coming to terms with former political foes, and where once diametrically opposed political parties are still grappling with the compromise they have forged.

The backdrop to this ‘arranged marriage’ is the dire financial and economic situation that Britain now finds itself; and the inevitable public expenditure cuts that may well affect all of us in profound ways.

On the 100th day of the Coalition Government, the symbolism of the coalition is best exemplified with the fact that the Liberal Democrat Deputy Prime Minister today is nominally in charge while the Conservative Prime Minister David Cameron is on holiday.

Much will be said about the delicate and complex negotiations pertaining to the Coalition Government’s challenges, however how have the first 100 days affected Muslims?

On Monday, Clegg spoke at an event for the international charity Islamic Relief in which he commended the generosity of Muslims during Ramadan, particularly in response to the Pakistan floods. There, Clegg and the Conservative International Development Secretary, Andrew Mitchell, struck a chord with Muslims when both castigated the international community for its sluggish response to the unfolding humanitarian crisis.

The Coalition Government began by appointing its first Muslim fully-fledged member of the Cabinet. Selected as Co-Chair of the Conservative Party, Baroness Sayeeda Warsi has the onerous task of connecting and selling Coalition policies to the Party grassroots. She also has an unofficial roving brief to be an interlocutor between government and Muslim communities.

The government has gone some way in reforming those policies of the previous government that were perceived to adversely affect British Muslims as a faith group. Within days of being appointed, the Security Minister Baroness Pauline Neville-Jones granted her first interview with Islam Channel and emphasised the importance of rebuilding trust between Muslim communities and the government. Thereafter the government announced a review and most probably a cancellation of the highly controversial Prevent programme which conflated counter-terrorism and community cohesion. The government has also announced a review of counter-terror legislation, in line with its commitment to introduce a Freedom Bill. In this regard it will also review the use of stop and search powers in section 44 of the Terrorism Act 2000.

Members of the government have also shown personal leadership in facing up to intolerance. Even though the attempt by Tory MP Phillip Hollobone to ride the wave of European Islamophobia by banning the niqab resonated with the media and polls here, Immigration Minister Damian Green asserted the values of this country by stating emphatically that a ban on the niqab would be ‘un-British’.

The challenge for government is to follow-up this personal display of courage with institutional support to tackle anti-Muslim hatred and Islamophobia at all levels. With the deepest public service cuts to be announced in a generation, there will be a challenge and an opportunity for British Muslim civil society to make its contribution.

The government has announced its ‘Big Society’ initiative that aims to give individuals and communities more control over their destinies.  This presents an opportunity for local Muslim groups, who have been well established participants in civil society, to play their role; establishing voluntary initiatives that will help all people, regardless of faith.

One avenue for this is through education, where the government has promised to allow parents to set up and administer ‘free schools’, with direct support from central government.

According to the Guardian newspaper, Muslim parents in Normanton, West Yorkshire, have responded to the call by raising £100,000 to set up a primary school under this initiative. In this regard, Muslim educationalists will examine with interest as to whether Muslim faith schools will be treated fairly.

In foreign affairs the government has reaffirmed its commitment to remaining in Afghanistan but has also indicated, just like the US administration, that combat troops should return home in five years.
Meanwhile, David Cameron won plaudits in the Muslim world when he asserted in Turkey that Gaza “cannot remain a prison camp”, and how the attack on the ‘Freedom Flotilla’ to aid Gaza was completely unacceptable. Though such sentiments are much stronger in favour of the Palistinian plight compared to the previous government, the test will come when government will be presented with the need to apply official censure to Israeli actions.

Conversely, on that same trip, he also courted controversy by declaring that Pakistan should not be allowed to “look both ways” in relation to terrorism. The comments led to a furious backlash from Pakistani government circles with Pakistan’s UN Ambassador accusing Cameron of contributing to the lacklustre attitude of the international community in relation to giving aid post-floods.  A forthcoming test will be how the UK conducts itself as the mutual antagonism between Iran and the West intensifies.

So in the early days of the Coalition Government, the scorecard has been promising but there are challenging times ahead.

Chief amongst these is the need to deal with alienation and exclusion. Many will be keeping an eye into how government facilitates getting Muslim women into work, tackling deprivation in the poorest areas where many Muslims live and working to bring harmony between communities. In austere times, we all need to think of creative ways to overcome these problems.

There does not seem to be a public consensus between Conservatives and Liberal Democrats when it comes to engagement with Muslims. Perhaps there does not need to be as policy on a raft of Muslim issues changed from year-to-year under the previous administration.

Prior to the elections, the Conservatives promised to deal with Muslims as citizens, not as a faith community or through representative groups. It remains to be seen how this will be done in practise, and whether this applies to other faith communities as well.

A further challenge will also come from those grassroots Conservative activists who vocally advocate a more hard-nosed approach to Muslims and British Muslim civil society. In this regard the comments by Damian Green did not go down well in these quarters while the banning of Zakir Naik, a controversial preacher with a popular following amongst some sections of the Muslim community, instantly drew praise.

The banning of Naik was not without controversy in government. The decision revealed tensions between civil servants and ministers with a Home Office Muslim advisor being suspended after revealing that the head of the Office of Counter-Terrorism was unhappy with the decision. This episode led to Conservative backbenchers censuring civil servants and calling for a tougher line in the face of an unaccommodating civil service.

Counter-terrorism was the backdrop to this problem, a problem which dogged the previous government when terrorism and community cohesion was conflated. To some, this controversy demonstrates that the allure to conflate Muslims with terrorism will continue to be a much debated policy problem.

Of interest to the Westminster village – but perhaps not to ordinary Muslims – will be how government will deal with the unseemly jostling by Muslim groups and consultancies for access to power and funding.

The challenge for government is to act as a fair and neutral interlocutor, as opposed to one that engages in the sectarianism and disunity that afflicts the Muslim community. Alternatively, we might find ourselves in the extraordinary situation where Muslim groups, realising that they might have to fend for themselves, will at last learn to live with difference and forge a common purpose for the benefit of Britain’s Muslims specifically, and wider society as a whole.

What do you think of the Coalition’s first 100 days?

Do you feel it is an improvement on Labour’s record; still too early to tell; or are you suitably under-impressed with their record so far?


Running on empty

Day 1 of Ramadan ‘10 is almost over at the office. Not surprisingly, it has been a relatively quiet day here. Our caffeine rich environment now lies barren as we wait for the last couple of hours to go. The team are busy wrapping up the Eid issue. I’m in the process of road testing a few gadgets for the tech section and needed subjects to shoot with one of the camera phones. Thankfully, the office is littered with cushions and quirky lamps following an interiors photoshoot from yesterday.

toys!

toys!

taken using a Sony Ericsson Xperia phone (look out for the review in Issue 72)

taken using a Sony Ericsson Xperia phone (look out for the review in Issue 72)

Here's another one. Can't keep the cushion though :(

Here's another one. Can't keep the cushion though :(

Ramadan Soundbytes

 

Happy Ramadan from the emel team

Happy Ramadan from the emel team

 Ramadan sound bytes from around the office….

Remona Aly; Deputy Editor
I’m a big food lover, but I plan to stay really focused this Ramadan – feeding my soul rather than my stomach is top of the list!

Somaiya Khan-Piachaud; Features Editor
Ramadan is a time to slow down and contemplate; as I fast I pray for the billion people around the world who go hungry every day.

Tajkia Misbah; Administrator
Ramadan to me is a time of new beginnings, a time to better oneself, a time to change. My hopes for this Ramadan are to do exactly that!

Shakera Mohammed; PR & Marketing Manager
“I haven’t got TIME” – My usual slogan! I think of this month as a mental detox and training for the rest of the year.  Forgetting about the daily rush and focusing on our devotion to Allah and each other.

Robi Chowdhury; Web Editor
Ramadan is a time of year that teaches me self discipline in my behaviour  and moderation in all aspects of my life. I try to use what I learn in Ramadan for the rest of the year.

Ayman J Khwaja; Editorial Assistant
I’m praying internally to Allah every day – from the tube station, to the
walk to work, as I pass every bakery and sweet shop, every milkshake bar
and sushi joint – ‘Dear Allah, please make my eyes see coal instead of
doughnuts in the shop window!’ I’ll be fine, inshAllah – I must channel my inner-Oliver and NOT ask for more, Sir! But settle for less and be greedy for spiritual bliss!

Tasnim El-Naggar; Editorial Intern                                                                  My Ramadan will be a bit different than usual – I will miss my friends and family who are at home in Germany. Fortunately I am living together with a few nice Turkish girls, and I am sure we will have a faithful time, breaking our fast and praying together. And of course I am really curious how Ramadan is practiced here. Is it different from Germany?

Hira Rana ; Advertising Consultant                                                                Ramadan for me is simply about the following: The doors of heaven  are opened up on the first night of Ramadan and not a single door is closed until the last night of Ramadan.”

From Issue 1 to 61

Issue 1 to 61

Issue 1 to 61

 It is six years and 60 issues ago that we launched the first issue of emel. The creation of that first issue is imprinted onto my whole being and I can remember it like yesterday.

Taking the idea for a high quality Muslim lifestyle magazine from concept to reality was a serious challenge.  It took the creative brilliance of a lot of people; people who shall forever remain in my heart.

There were many sleepless nights; and the lack of sleep became more acute the closer to deadline we got. What little sleep we did achieve was often on the floor of the emel office. For me personally, I would arrive home at dawn, sleep for an hour or two and then have my three children bound into the room energised by their full night’s sleep.

Read the full story – Issue 1, In the Making>

Media Interns Wanted

emel magazine is looking for media interns to help upload content onto our new website. The job will span 6-8 weeks, and media interns will be able to take part in morning meetings and see the magazine being put together. The job will mainly centre around extracting text from the archives and cropping images for our website. Knowledge of Paintshop, Photoshop or InDesign software is preferred. Any interested parties should send their CV and cover letter detailing their interest to info@emel.com, FAO Features Editor Somaiya Khan-Piachaud – Thank you.

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Important information about emel internships:

Salary and Benefits

Internships provide a supplemental learning experience for the student. All internships with emel media are unpaid and on average last for six weeks. The average workday is from 9am-5pm each weekday, with an hour for lunch between 1-2pm. However, we can be flexible and working hours can be tailored to accommodate university schedules.

Housing and Transportation

Interns are expected to find their own housing and transportation to work, however you may apply for £5 a day to go towards these expenses and claim the amount at the end of the week. Our offices are based near Finchley Road Underground station.

Beyond the Internship

Interns are not guaranteed employment after their internship period. However, interns may apply for any available full-time and part-time positions.

Where can I find copies of emel in the UK?

Spotted in a Sainsbury's by Robi

Spotted in a Sainsbury's

If you’re not yet a subscriber of the magazine, don’t fret! There are various places where you can pick up copies of the magazine. A company called MMC distributes emel and they have devised a way that will allow you to input your postcode and find out the nearest outlet to purchase the magazine.

Searching for emel

Searching for emel

1) Find emel in the drop down menu

2) Input your postcode

3) Select distance to destination

Click here to go to the MMC website or type in http://availability.mmcltd.co.uk/ into your browser

Sales and Marketing Interns Wanted

Looking for an exceptional development opportunity?

A chance to be mentored by a senior sales director?

Dynamic enough to fit into an intimate inspired media company?

Motivated?

Organised?

Confident communicator?

R U Cr34t1v3?

Ready?

Go!

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emel Magazine is looking for sales and marketing interns to contribute to, develop and implement its sales and marketing strategy. The job will span 6-8 weeks, and successful interns will have the opportunity to develop in a dynamic media environment as well being mentored by a senior director. The job will mainly centre on researching and indentifying potential clients leading onto initial contact and subsequent meetings, administration, database development, researching and attending networking events. Preferred skills: excellent communication, motivated, self starter, dynamic approach, well organised, creative, target driven.

Any interested parties should send their CV and cover letter detailing their interest to info@emel.com, FAO Features Editor Somaiya Khan-Piachaud – Thank you.

 

Important information about emel internships:

Salary and Benefits

Internships provide a supplemental learning experience for the student. All internships with emel media are unpaid and on average last for six weeks. The average workday is from 9am-5pm each weekday, with an hour for lunch between 1-2pm. However, we can be flexible and working hours can be tailored to accommodate university schedules.

Housing and Transportation

Interns are expected to find their own housing and transportation to work, however you may apply for £5 a day to go towards these expenses and claim the amount at the end of the week. Our offices are based near Finchley Road Underground station.

Beyond the Internship

Interns are not guaranteed employment after their internship period. However, interns may apply for any available full-time and part-time positions.

Press Coverage of War Memorial Campaign

The war memorial campaign gaining momentum in the press -

A trip down memory lane with issue 3 revival

blast from the past

We’ve been busy at the office recently compiling the back issues so that we can feature them on our website. It’s a difficult task that will take months to do and we’re getting a lot of help from a number of interns who are helping out at emel.

The lastest issue to go up on the site is the Issue 3 (December/January 2004).

The magazine features Native Deen (relatively new to the Muslim music market then) along with an interview with Yvonne Ridley right after her capture by the Taliban in Afghanistan.

Read the full articles online here

Join emel’s House Party (LAST DAY TO SIGN UP)

join the emel team this Friday

join the emel team tomorrow

This is your chance to network with the emel team – Sarah Joseph – the Editor, emel Writers, Lifestyle Editor, Art Director, Web Editor, the sales team etc will all be on hand to mingle and answer your questions. You will also get behind the scenes access into what is coming out over the course of the year and have the opportunity to give feedback and suggestions.

Scrumptious snacks are available on the day, including Nisa’s Homemade Recipes -
(Meat and Veg)
Samosas
Spring Rolls
Cutlets
Kebabs

Healthy and wholesome tidbits will also be available for the calorie conscious.

All attendees will receive an emel goodie bag to take away with them.

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What is World House Party Day?

The focus of World House Party Day is to raise a minimum of £100,000 to fund a national Islamic Awareness campaign in Ramadan.

The money raised will be used to go into :

* Distributing 10,000 packs of dates to the general public through city centre events.
* Catering for up to 5000 People (Muslim & Non Muslim) to break fast together in the UK’s 3 major largest cities.
* Distributing toys at Royal Manchester Children’s Hospital for Eid Ul Fitr with celebrity support.
* Putting up posters on three famous high streets with the hadith of Holy Prophet Muhammad (PBUH)
* Decorating 150 buses with The hadith of Holy Prophet Muhammad (PBUH)

How to Register -

1) Register on our justgiving page here

2) Drop an email to info@emel.com expressing your interest to register. Add ‘emel House Party’ in your subject line.

3) Call us on 020 7328 7300

 

Where and When?

Friday the 14th May 2010

1 Canfield Place,
Finchley Road,
London,
NW6 3BT

You can pop in any time between 5 and 8pm.

Ten Tips to Show Our Love for Muhammad

ten tips to help you share your love of the Prophet and make the change.

ten tips to help you share your love of the Prophet and make the change.

So I went and viewed the Facebook, “Everybody Draw Muhammad” page, and I admit that I cried. Then I sat stunned for the next 15 minutes at my computer. You would have thought I would have known the types of images that people would have posted, but it was the vulgarity and debasement which so utterly shocked me. Why would anyone want to be so offensive and ugly about anything or anyone, let alone someone who is revered and loved by so many.

I posted to my Facebook status the Qur’anic verse “The servants of the All-Merciful are those who walk in the earth modestly and who, when the ignorant address them, say, ‘Peace’.” (25:63)

I am not sure this made me feel better or worse.  Was I just capitulating to a wrong? Or was I making a statement of faithfulness to God in the face of provocation. I needed a plan of action, and I thought I would share it with you.

Here are our ten tips to help you share your love of the Prophet and make the change.

  • Read a biography of Muhammad

If we become more acquainted with the life of Muhammad, his ways and his words, then we will feel closer to him, and will be better able to defend his character. In the English language, Martin Ling’s biography of Muhammad is one of the most eloquent.

  • Tell a child

Having read the biography we need to share that information. Our children are the first place we should start. If we ourselves do not have children, then tell your nieces or nephews anecdotes and beautiful stories from his life.

  • Facebook – hadith of the day/ week

If you are on Facebook or other social networks, share a beautiful hadith with your friends. Use social networks as a dawah tool. We have designed a profile picture that you can download and use for your profile if you wish.

Right Click to open, and save

Click to open, and save

  • Ask your library to buy in a good biography

Libraries are amenable to buying in books that are requested. Sometimes they need more than one person to request it, so get your friends to make the same request. Make sure they buy in books for the adult and children sections. If they refuse to buy books because of budgets restraints then offer to buy it for the library.

  • Buy a School’s Resource Pack

The Muslim Council of Britain have a good school’s resource pack (click here). Buy it for your local primary school. If it is too expensive (£250) then get together with some friends to buy it.

  • School Assembly

Make yourself available to your local schools to do an assembly on the life of Muhammad. If you feel you just cannot stand in front of an audience, then organise the event and get someone else to come in and do the talk. Organisations like ISB and Christian Muslim Forum can help you find someone to come and do the talk for you.

  • Hold an exhibition

This may seem like a giant impossible step, but actually schools, local libraries and town halls are very open and amenable places. Explain how we need to build bridges of understanding and that you would like to hold an exhibition. Islam Awareness Week in November is a recognised fixture in the calendar and many councils and schools will be open to having an event then – but start planning it now.
You can find professional produced exhibitions to buy and rent here.

  • Hold a cultural evening

Book a local hall and hold an evening of poetry, and songs that focus on the prophet and his life and deeds. Make it a free and open event. Local businesses may be open to sponsoring the event, your local Muslim restaurant may give free or discounted food, or make it a “bring-a-dish” do and get the community to work together to organise the food.

  • Mosque Open Day

Encourage your mosque to hold an open day. Mosques are often perceived as closed and scary places. Explain to the mosque committee that we need to open up to show people about the true character of Muhammad.

  • Interfaith

Visit your local Church, Synagogue or Temple and talk to them about building a society of mutual respect and understanding. Explain how the vilification of Muhammad (or any religious figure) undermines faith and thus people of faith and conscience should work together for the betterment of the whole of society.

Above all, make your life a living testament to the character of Muhammad. Being angry and abusive only reinforces people’s negative perceptions of the Prophet. Whilst being a living, walking testament to the fact that he was sent as a Mercy to Mankind will make people think again about their views of the Prophet.

3 Step process on how to get unstuck

Around a week or so ago, I was working on the emel Facebook fanpage, when I came across this very interesting new and quirky website called Productive Muslim. They are promising to be brand that sets out to inspire young Muslims to become productive through Islam by applying a range of tried and tested techniques. I love the ideas and suggestions that they have made so far and wanted to flag it for people to have a look at it if they haven’t already.

I also wanted to share with a guest post they published today on their site by Arif and Ali Vakil of vakil.org

With print week around the corner for us and the pressure of deadlines hitting us all, I felt that this post could not have arrived at a better time! It’s a three step process on how to get ‘unstuck’. Check it out here and let us know what you think.

Robi

The Web Editor

Friday Round-Up > Fashion Shoots, Zain Bhikha and iPads

Salams and Greetings All,

First of all, Jummah Mubarak and we hope that you have a blessed day today! The weather so far appears to be holding up here in London as the sun has come out to welcome us to the weekend.  Ayman (our Assistant Editor) has brought in a few things for Fatema (our Lifestyle Editor) to use today for a day of photoshoots that are going into the eco-special July issue.

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The June issue of emel has just hit the stores and you can find out more information about it in our monthly e-zine here. In this month’s issue of emel, we interview  Zain Bhikha who is touring the country with Families Relief, plus cover a feature on a summer of sport that includes interviews with Anelka and other Premiership footballers.

Zain Bhikha and Friends – Families Relief UK Concert Tour

Zain Bhikha and his friends will be kick starting the first leg of his UK concert tour for Families Relief. He is in Manchester tonight and emel are attending as media partners at the event. If you will be attending the event, come over and say hello to us. We will also be attending the rest of the events in London, Bradford and Birmingham and you can still catch us there. Click here if you haven’t booked tickets yet.

The dawn of a new age?

Apple’s acclaimed iPad went on sale in the UK today, with many industry experts calling it the dawn of a new age. I still have my personal reservations on the product, however I can’t help but imagine the possibilities -

emel_ipadWill you be lining up to buy an iPad soon? If you did, how would you like to read emel? Would you download and read an emel iPad or iPhone app if we offered one?  Please leave your thoughts and comments below :)

Inspired by Muhammad (PBUH)

Have you spotted these posters all over London?

Have you spotted the posters across London?

Have you spotted the posters across London?

Inspired by Muhammad is a brand new campaign launched by the Exploring Islam Foundation that is designed to improve the public understanding of Islam and Muslims. The campaign sets out to demonstrate how Muhammad inspires them to contribute to society, with a focus on women’s rights, social justice and the environment. emel’s editor, Sarah Joseph is an Ambassador of the campaign and you can see a clip of her discussing animal welfare in Islam here -

Calling Student Writers

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This summer sees round two of embox hit the shelves. We’re looking for enthusiastic writers to join our team. Are you a young Muslim and think you know a thing or two about student life? We’re looking for you.
embox covers many of the issues important to new students, from health to finance to simple everyday lifestyle tips such as ‘what to wear’, and ‘where to eat’…embox covers it all.

To have a look at the last issue, click here.

If you want to join the team, all you have to do is to respond to the following question below -

If we were developing ‘A quick guide to Muslim student life’, what would be your one essential tip for a Muslim student?

Drop us an email to info@emel.com, (FAO:embox), 100- 150 words.
Deadline: 23rd June 2010.
We look forward to hearing from you soon!!
Good luck!

Exclusive ‘I Love Muhammad’ t-shirts available – limited time only

Greetings All,

After the popularity of Sarah’s post last month on 10 tips to show our love for Muhammad (PBUH), we have been inundated with emails and calls from people who have requested for the idea to be extended to printed t-shirts.

We are pleased to say that we are launching our limited edition ‘I love Muhammad’ t-shirts.

The t-shirts cost £10.00 plus postage and packaging* for advance orders. Orders must be made by 5pm GMT on on the 23rd of June 2010.

For orders placed after this date, t-shirts will cost £15.00 plus postage and packaging*.

To order yours, drop us a line at +44(0) 207 328 7300 or email us at info@emel.com with your name, preferred shirt size and telephone number.

Get yours now, whilst stocks last!

 

 

 

 

* For UK deliveries, postage and packaging will be at the cost of £1.50. For international deliveries, postage and packaging will be at the cost of £4.00. Orders must be paid for in advance. T-shirts available whilst stocks last.

The quest for your favourite abaya’s

Hey all,

Just thought I’d drop you a line this lovely Monday morning. I’m looking ahead to… Ramadan!! Thinking about all the things I want out of this beautiful month, and reminiscing of previous years.

I’m also working towards the Ramadan issue of emel, looking at the lifestyle aspects. Here at emel, we thought we’d look at some elegant Abaya’s and hijabs, from timeless cuts to edgy newer designs. What are some of your favourite stores? Where did you buy your favourite abaya from?

With summer upon us, I’ve also started wearing more colourful floral scarves and figured, what better time to feature an array of different prints, colours and styles of hijab than in this issue. So what are your favourite colours or styles, and why? Where do you buy your hijabs?

Back to work… Over and out

Fatema

The Rise of the Paywall

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The Times, one of the UK’s largest and oldest newspapers, has finally raised its much speculated Paywall today. The Paywall will only allow selected users to read articles from The Times website. This could very well bring out the dawn of a new age in online experiences. Rupert Murdoch promises us that the scheme will help readers pay for ‘quality’ content as opposed to what’s already available online.

Would you be willing to pay for online content if you knew you were getting more?

We want to know what you think :) Leave your comments below >

Interesting posts relating to the story -

The GuardianPaywall? What paywall? Times site still free

BBC article – Times begins charges for online readers

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Competitive Internship Programme at emel

Are you a dynamic, fast thinking, hard working individual with a passion for media? Then emel’s Competitive Internship Programme could be for you. The Programme will potentially lead to paid work / a full time editorial position.

emel is a Muslim lifestyle magazine. Based in North London, the small but dedicated and friendly team put together this high quality glossy magazine with a global reach.

Task wills include writing text, research, interviewing, assisting in photo-shoots, obtaining press images and dealing with PRs.

The role is varied and requires a candidate who is flexible, committed, competent, and who pays attention to detail. The candidate is required to have an open-minded approach and be willing to undertake whatever task requires completion.

The successful candidates will be able to meet strict deadlines, have an eye for detail, write with fluency and able to cope with pressure.

Training in the relevant Design packages will be given but you will be expected to be conversant with standard Office packages including Word and Excel.

If you want your foot in the door of media, then come to us for your internship, but be warned: it looks glamorous, but it is very, very hard work!

This internship will involve coming to our Swiss Cottage office for five days a week for three months.

We will offer expenses of up to £250 per month for this internship and there is the potential for paid work and a full time position for the right candidate.

We have four internship openings beginning 2nd August 2010.

Successful candidate(s) for the full time position will begin 1st November 2010.

Closing Date

26th July 2010

Salary

Expenses of £250 per month, with a chance of full time employment at the end of the three month programme

Contact

Please send your CV, a brief cover note, and an example of your written work to info@emel.com with “emel Competitive Internship Programme” in the subject line

Website

www.emel.com

Friday Round up> Ramadan issue teaser and resisting meringues

The Ramadan issue has just come into the office and it is looking amazing! We don’t want to spoil it for people but we think that you’ll really like it :)

cleverly hidden under a bunch of emel business cards :)

cleverly hidden under a bunch of emel business cards :)

Our Facebook page has become quite popular recently as we are trying to interact more with our readers. The page is seeing a lot of hot debates, discussions and competitions on there. If you haven’t joined by now, please do so here, and invite your friends over too. We have a lot more in store in the coming months.

A lot of people are now out for their Summer holidays. We have compiled a number of top places to go with friends and family and a list of things you can do. We really think you should check that out here and then let us know how it went by leaving us a comment or two below.

This coming Monday, Saïd Business School at the University of Oxford will be hosting a major conference on the global Muslim Market. We ran a feature on it for the current issue when Allen Lai discussed with us on what trend spotters are calling ‘the next big thing’. You can read the feature here. Our editor, Sarah will also be speaking at the event too. She’ll be talking on ‘Reaching the Muslim Market – Opportunities and Challenges’. We’ve asked her to tweet throughout the day to let us know what is going on, and you’ll be able to listen in by following her @SarahIJoseph.

Anyway, Fatema, Steven and Tamsin are about to do the food shoots for our Eid issue and we are being told to stay away from the meringues! Could you have resisted? :)

yum :)

yum :)

origami boxes

origami boxes

Narges, one of our designers created these very awesome origami boxes out of crafted paper for the food photoshoot. We are hoping to shoot a small video tutorial on how you can do that in time for the issue when it comes out. Watch this space.

The hunt for married couples

Hello all,

As you might have already heard, we are currently workng on the Eid issue (it’s a little strange like that, we work over a month ahead). Our editor (Sarah) has sent our messages in the past asking people to send in stories that we are looking for. Right now, we are hunting for stories from couples to go into our marriage section.

Come back, don’t run away yet!

The marriage feature is written in the first person format, with each spouse taking about -

The lead-up to the marriage - The feelings and emotions prior to the marriage, how it all came about, what each person was looking for

What each person was looking for - Any advice for others, any unusual points, funny and unexpected events or occurences that happened and how life has changed since the marriage?

If you want to look at some good examples of how the stories read, check out our marriage section on the site here

Ask your friends and family members if they are interested in being featured. It’s a popular part of the magazine and the website and sets out to inspire people looking to get married, as well as young couples.

When they are interested, drop us an email at editorial@emel.com and have the subject header as MARRIAGE and leave us your contact details.

Thank you once again!

Robi

Rekindling the lost art of letter writing

A couple of weeks ago, I received a letter from a friend of mine who I studied with last year. He made the effort to write out a physical letter and send it my way in a bid to check up on how life was going and also rekindle the lost artform of letter writing. It struck me when I was working on my reply that it had been a very long time since I wrote a personal letter to anyone at all. We tend to express ourselves and convey messages to one another within a restricted space of either 140 characters on Twitter, or a few lines on Facebook.

It could be just a regional issue, however I wanted to pose the question anyway – When was the last time that you either sent or received a personal letter to someone? Are you emailing more than sending letters these days?

Let us know by leaving a comment below >

What films make you cry?

Toy Story 3 has said to bring grown men to tears. Readers to BBC Online have been writing in with films that make them cry (http://www.bbc.co.uk/news/magazine-10814813)

We had a quick run-round in the emel office to find out which films have brought tears to the eyes of our staff:

Bambi
ET
Sophie’s Choice
Shindler’s List
Step Mom
Beaches
Dev Das
PS I Love You
It’s A Wonderful Life
Lion King

So what film’s make you cry and why?

A’maze’ing

trafalgar_square_mazeHave you ever been lost in a maze?

Trafalgar Square is playing host to a giant maze until 6th August.

The temporary tourist attraction is hoping to attract visitors to the West  End, with the 2.4m (7.9ft) laurel and thuja structure. Parts of the maze are named after areas of the West End and as the visitors try to find their way around they can learn about those places. In the centre are different pieces of entertainment from around the West End, including a giant paper dragon show from Chinatown. (http://www.westendlondon.com/maze/)

The Story of the Butterfly

butterflyA few people have asked about my reference to a butterfly in my most recent editorial: “Any attempt to prematurely escape from such challenges before they have had the chance to impact your character is like the butterfly that is hastily urged out of its cocoon – it will be unable to truly fly.”  (http://www.emel.com/article?id=75&a_id=2084&c=63)

This reference comes from The Story of the Butterfly:

“A man found a cocoon of a butterfly. One day a small opening appeared; he sat and watched the butterfly for several hours as it struggled to force its body through that little hole. Then it seemed to stop making any progress. It appeared as if it had gotten as far as it could and it could go no farther.

Then the man decided to help the butterfly, so he took a pair of scissors and snipped off the remaining bit of the Cocoon. The butterfly then emerged easily. But it had a swollen body and small, shrivelled wings.

The man continued to watch the butterfly because he expected that, at any moment, the wings would enlarge and expand to be able to support the body, which would contract in time.

Neither happened! In fact, the butterfly spent the rest of its life crawling around with a swollen body and shrivelled wings. It never was able to fly.

What this man in his kindness and haste did not understand was that the restricting Cocoon and the struggle required for the butterfly to get through the tiny opening were nature’s way of forcing fluid from the body of the butterfly into its wings so that it would be ready for flight once it achieved its freedom from the cocoon.”

What do you think the moral of The Story of the Butterfly is?

Ground Zero Mosque

An initiative to build a 13-storey Islamic cultural centre and mosque in New York, several hundred feet away from the site of the Twin Towers, looks set to go ahead after the Landmarks Preservation Commission rejected calls to ban development by achieving landmark status for the current building.

The planned centre and mosque to be called Cordoba House is a project of Cordoba Initiative, run by Imam Feisal Abdul Rauf, who along with his wife, Daisy Khan, have created a number of projects and initiatives post September 11th.

The mosque project has caused much negative reaction: TV adverts were rejected, Sarah Palin, some 9/11 victims families and the influential ADL have called for the centre not to be built on the site. However New York Mayor, Michael Bloomberg; other 9/11 victims families and civil liberties groups have said the mosque should go ahead as a matter of principle.

What do you think? Is it insensitive and tasteless of the Cordoba Initiative to attempt to build the mosque so close to Ground Zero? Or should principle win out, for no one behind the mosque project sanctions in any way the horrors of 9/11? Can the mosque be a place for healing as its planners suggest, or is it a wound in the flesh of so much sorrow?

Pakistan Flood – Fundraising Suggestions

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Image courtesy Human Appeal

With a million people displaced and two million people needing emergency provisions, charities are appealing for donations. We look at ten ways to raise money.

  1. Invite all of your friends to an iftar evening and ask them to pay what they might in a restaurant.
  2. Make sweets and cakes and sell them to friends and family.
  3. With Ramadan here, make homemade Eid cards and crafts with your children and arrange to sell them to friends and family or even at the mosque.
  4. Encourage children to donate some or all of their pocket money.
  5. Take part in a boot sale; encourage children to sell clothes or toys they no longer need.
  6. Walk to work or school and donate the travel money.
  7. Think of one thing you really enjoy; perhaps your daily coffee and cake on the way to work and go without for a week. Donate the money you save.
  8. Put aside the amount you would have spent on lunch during Ramadan and donate that
  9. Liaise with the wider community to hold unified events such as bazaars —the local Church or local school may help hold events in their halls.
  10. Sponsored events such as walks, swims, spellathons or Qur’an memorisation are all great ways to collect money.

And remember – a little money goes a long way:
£5 will provide a case of bottled water
£15 will buy a family hygiene kit
£40 will buy a food pack for one month

£100 will buy a family tent
£1000 will provide a medical camp for 48 hours

Hiroshima’s Ground Zero – Why Nuclear Weapons are Fundamentally Un-Islamic

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August 6th – 65 years ago today a bomb codenamed “Little Boy” was dropped on the Japanese city of Hiroshima, which had been spared conventional aerial bombardment so that it would be a “pristine target”. With a radius of one mile from Ground Zero, the first effect of the explosion was blinding light, accompanied by radiant heat from the fireball. Near Ground Zero, everything flammable burst into flames, glass products and sand melted into molten glass, and humans were either vaporised or turned to carbon in an instant. Famously, the shadow of one victim was etched into stone steps. An estimated 65,000 to 200,000 people lost their lives in the impact of that one single bomb, with later fatalities from cancer and leukemia coming over the next 30 years.

When I was 15 I travelled to Hiroshima with my brother and cousin. I was a passionate advocate for nuclear disarmament and could not understand how the two super-powers of the 1980s – USA and Russia – were engaged in an expensive arms race to create even more powerful versions of the bombs that had wreaked so much destruction on Hiroshima, and three days later, Nagasaki. Once in Hiroshima we approached an elderly Japanese man – old enough to have been a survivor – to ask where Peace Memorial Park was. He could speak no English, and we could speak no Japanese. He took us by the hand, on and off buses, until we reached the park. He bowed and left us.

The park stands as testament to the world of the horrors of that day. It is a destruction that the world should never forget, yet I find very few young people are even aware of it. And nowadays we find other nations building nuclear weapons. The USA, Russia, China, France and Britain were the five nuclear nations whose nuclear status meant they became permanent members of the UN Security Council. Now we must add to this list India, Pakistan, North Korea and Israel (although the latter never publicly acknowledges the fact). Iran may or may not be trying to create its own weapons.

For me the fact that Pakistan has them, and Iran may want them, evokes the greatest sadness within me. That Muslim nations should attempt to attain something which is so far from Islamic principles shows how lost even Muslims have become – rejecting The Divine Creator.

The nuclear arms race is based upon the concept of Mutual Assured Destruction, whereby two opposing sides both have the ability to destroy each other, thereby protecting both. Yet this notion of “deterrence” does not take into account the fact that historically there has never been an arms race which did not end in a war. And for me, the acronym sums it up.

As Muslims it is our duty to think outside the box, not blindly follow the mandate of others. If having nuclear weapons is the ticket to becoming a permanent member of the UN, we need to change the ticket, not continue to spend billions of pounds of scarce resources of a “deterrence” that supposedly we’ll never use. The nuclear mindset comes from the 1950s. A lot has changed since then. We need bold new thinking to get us out of this quagmire, and Muslims should be leading the way based upon the principles of self-surrender onto God rather than blindly following like sheep (potentially to slaughter).

Some Muslims have cited to me the Qur’anic verse 8:60 which talks about preparedness for war. But the nuclear bomb is not the same as the sword and war horses. Nuclear weapons make no distinction between the combatant and the non-combatant, between the soldier and the old, the infirm, the women, the children. Nuclear weapons poison the land and the genetic code of future generations. The midwives in Japan saw the results of nuclear weapons  – the genetic destructions of generations. It is the equivalent of poisoning the wells ten times over and is fundamentally un-Islamic.

To continue aping the modern war mindset of societies that have killed The Divine Creator in their thinking is to head towards a parapet of destruction with our eyes closed. And thus may this anniversary of Hiroshima stand as testament to us now and to future generations that nuclear weaponry is fundamentally at odds with self-surrender onto Him, and no Muslim should desire them for their nation.

Shoe-String Wedding

When Chelsea Clinton got married last weekend the event is estimated to have cost between $3-$5million. Chelsea’s Vera Wang dress alone came in at around $20,000. Such celebrity, high cost weddings are nothing new; with the exclusive pictures often being sold to the likes of Hello for upwards of £1million.

Yet, wedding extravagance is not the exclusive right of celebrities and former President’s daughters. All too often I see young Muslims couples feeling obliged to provide lavish ceremonies. Parents compete with parents. “So and so’s  wedding was amazing – how can we top it?” I see £40-£50,000 being spent on weddings without anyone taking a pause to ask the questions, “Is this really necessary?” “Is this really right?”

Everyone wants a happy occasion, something which can be enjoyed by the whole community and remembered by the family and couple. And whilst miserliness is not an Islamic attribute, neither is extravagance. As with all things, a balance must be found, and people must only do that which is easily within their means. Remortgaging the parental home to pay for a one day event is a folly which must be spoken against.

The extravagance of Chelsea Clinton’s wedding reminds me of my own wedding – by virtue of the fact that they were so different. When my husband and I tied the knot, I was a student and he was a pupil barrister. Our whole wedding was done on a shoe string. My mother baked the cake, my uncle iced it. My mother embroidered my dress, my sister sewed it together. We got the flowers from Covent Garden Flower Market – staying up all night to plant the centre baskets. My mother still has a plant thriving from the day. We did buy in the Asian food, but my mother and I cooked the English food. It was stressful – made more difficult by the fact my father died the week before the wedding, I went into shock and was hospitalised with a temperature which brought on a kidney infection. Yet, it was a family affair and everyone chipped in to help.

I’m not saying it has to be done this way, but I’m wary of the social pressures to put on a ‘big show’. My wedding day was a very special day – and we did not need lots of money to make it happen. What we needed was love and commitment – which are the bedrock of a marriage anyway.

The celestial firework display to welcome Ramadan

Amateur Astronomers

As the month of Ramadan approaches, within the next few nights the heavens will open up to much more than just a spiritual downpour. The annual Perseid meteor shower that starts from around the 9th to the 13th of August will be seen by millions of people all over the world.

The Perseid meteor shower is caused by debris from a Comet called Swift-Tuttle. The comet passes through our inner solar system every 133 years and leaves behind a trail of debris. Every year in August, the Earth passes through these trails. The debris from the comet vapourises as it enters our atmosphere, creating the meteor shower.

If the skies are clear, you should be able to catch the meteor shower anywhere, but the best views are under dark skies, away from urban and suburban lights.

But that’s not the end to the celestial fireworks display.

Anyone with a clear and unobstructed view of the west-northwest horizon will be able to see the gathering of three of the brightest planets, Venus, Mars and Saturn in a single glance. Therefore, all three planets will align themselves and the crescent moon will be located below them. What better way to start Ramadan?

Here are a few stargazing tips – (Courtesy of ehow.com)

  • Remote rural areas far away from light pollution, streetlights, cars and buildings are ideal spots for gazing up at the skies.
  • It gets cold. Be prepared by bringing along a few layers of warm clothes.
  • Look toward constellation Perseus for the radiant point of Perseid meteors. They’ll seem to come from that area, which is about halfway above the horizon in the northeast quadrant of the sky.
  • You can begin your search for the shower after 10 p.m (although the best viewing times are from midnight to dawn).
  • Recline with your feet facing due south and look straight up. Perseids should appear from over your left shoulder.

emel’s Ramadan last minute list

With only a day or two to spare, we thought we’d provide you with a last minute list of things to do to prepare for Ramadan. You can add points of your own in the comments section below!

1) Cook One, Freeze One – Don’t leave all your cooking until the last minute. We tend to spent a lot of our day making food and the rest of it binge eating. Save effort and time by preparing twice as much food – some for now, freeze some for later. Check out our recipes ideas for that here.

2) Suhoor Food Rampage – You’re about to start the day and want to prepare by clearing out the fridge to stuff yourself with as much food as possible – and it’s not even 4am yet. Not good. We have a few recipe ideas that should help keep you going throughout the day. Check that out here.

3) Moonsighting Wars – Baba Ali has created this brilliant Ramadan video to encourage people to stop making very common silly mistakes during the month. It’s a very funny video but with some strong messages too.

4) Pay attention, this is the science bit – Find out what happens to your body when you fast. Dr Noreen Kassem breaks it down by giving suggestions on things to eat and food to avoid. Read that here.

5) To Fast or Not to Fast?Imam Zaid Shakir set the parameters and talks about God’s mercy for those who may not be well enough to fast

6) The celestial firework display to welcome Ramadan – The annual Perseid meteor shower that starts from around the 9th to the 13th of August will be seen by millions of people all over the world. This happens to coincide this year with the opening of Ramadan. Why not give yourself a spiritual boost by trying to see if you can spot it with your freinds and family?

Think you have lots more to add to this list? Leave your suggestions and comments below!